Yeah man, dating's tough and just looking for someone to date is even tougher. I've had thw rost luck in men. All I get are the creapy stalkers. Both online and in real life. I'm almost done with the whole thing. I think I'll grow up old and alone with a lot of cats. I'll be the crazy cat lady. Yeah, that's the ticket.
And my mom didn't help any, always harping on me to get a boyfriend whenever I saw her. And it's not like I can just go to the store and get one. At least a normal one. I finally told her I decided to be a lesbian and she hasn't asked since. lol
Oh my gosh! THANK YOU! Someone else who's mother hounds them to find a boyfriend! I'm not alone in this! Believe me, I feel your pain. I've dated 5 guys and out of the five, only 1 treated me well. The rest abused me both physically and mentally. Sadly, with my low self-esteem, I was always too blind to see it and get out of it until my friends started smacking me upside the head. I think I had the worst of it when I was nearly raped by my first boyfriend. Sadly, no charges were pressed since I was a minor and was dating the son of a friend of the family's so when I told my parents, they didn't believe that the "sweet, innocent guy" would do such a thing. Then I've also got an ex-bf who turned into a stalker and won't leave me alone to live a life without him since my parents LOVED him. So believe me, I share your pain. Hense my other reason that I'm so nervous around guys and very untrusting until I REALLY REALLY get to know them.