Hmmmm. The simple answer? You're an Aires and the world likes to tick us off.
The real answer? Your energy field is down with a big hole in it and you're getting what I jokingly refer to as cosmic goon infiltration.

Can it be fixed?

Yes.
First, you and hubby will have to do some energy field repair....some people call it an aura, which it is, but sometimes people don't like to hear that word....and once you get that done, then you can purify and protect your home base.
There are some good books on this process by Barbara Y Martin.

Yes. I know this sounds like total Bulshoi, and a lot of people refuse to believe that's what this planet is based on.....but it's the truth. It's-all-about-Energy. Positive and negative. The law of Attraction.
Sally forth, Phoenix. Do the so-called crazy thing and conquer.
May love and blessings surround you.
And remember, when it isn't all about energy......it's all about Raphael. lol....yeah, ok, now I'm joking.

Sorta.